I am not sure where to start this week.  The past few days have been some of the most tragic moments of my life.  It has been heart wrenching watching my family endure the heart ache of losing a loved one, a child, grandson, nephew, cousin and brother.

The outpouring of love, prayers and support from friends, family, neighbors, church family and strangers has been such a blessing for our entire family especially for Tim and Lennie.

Please know we appreciate all you have done and will do for our family.

Toby was a friend to all he met and a sweet, hardworking, fun loving young man who left us all too soon.  I will never forget that little grin and those dimples.

If you are struggling or know someone who is struggling, please talk to someone.  A parent, a friend, a teacher, a coach.  The adults in your life are here for you.  We want only the best for you and we can help.  Your teenage years are but just a tiny portion of your life.  You have so much more ahead of you.  So much to look forward to.

Rest in peace sweet Toby, we love you.

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